Finding Love: When your a Hopeless romantic

Sometimes we get very sad when you’re the only one who is single in a batch or a group of friends. It’s something we all have heard of and we try to face it some try to ignore it some of us try to tell ourselves "it's all right" or "No Big Deal".

Well believe it or not there are people who need love as much as food or even air. Sounds ridiculous well its true we need.  Those people are hopeless romantics, maybe for some of us love is just a state of emotion maybe for some it is a myth or an imagination nothing more than that but there are some of us who rather don't have the same notion of love. Some people believe in things which others don't comprehend or understand it doesn't make it less true or false notion. if you think its insanity then let me tell you this your notion is not wrong completely and your partially correct.

                  The assumption was correct because for a fact that romance or romanticizing makes your decision arbitrary rather than based on the fact the other person is nice because of any of the reason such as that person is caring, good look yet down to earth, loving with strong principles or values but no rather you will make your decision based on something you saw in a movie or something based on a book or maybe, your choice might be based on a person’s wealth. This is the very problem with too romantic ideas. It’s never your own story or struggle or story it’s rather a life your reliving based on someone else’s true story or someone else’s dream or imagination.

Life is living based on your own decision and taking responsibility same applies for love. You can’t feel pain unless you experience it, empathy comes when you have expressed a human emotion first hand and your mind knows it well.

                         You will never feel pain until it hits you, you can never understand loss until you lose someone from your life, you can’t experience pain unless your hurt. Similarly, love is a unique experience it should be genuine, it’s should be felt first hand it can’t be random or calculated there isn’t a formula for it.

You must fall in love with the person completely, you must accept a person’s amazing traits and flaws as well. Remember there isn’t a perfect man or woman, they are people with awesome qualities, flaws and sometime even baggage. Best part of being in a relation or love is not have a perfect relationship but to share these with them and enjoy the moments of life.